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Cute Nicknames For My Future Spouse....


One..i will call him -my HANDSOME and SEXY..these names would light his day as I give him an assurance that I find him handsome and attractive. 


two..my BIG guy..coz im short and would suit perfectly if he is tall n well built..ahhahahah:)


three..my HERO..I want him to be my movie star..Like Edward Cullen did!!


four..my CUDDLY BEAR or HONEY BEAR..this is so cute and to tell him that I love to be with him 24/7 hrs..


five..my HOT LIPS...a perfect cute nick name for him and every kisses he will give me..


six..my PRINCE CHARMING...adorable nickname for him that gives a sense of power. 


seven..HONEY,BABY,B,DIOR,DEAR,LOVE,HUBBY,MY BOO,BAM-BAM,JELLY BEAR,HUGSTER..and many more!!!!!

Here are few reasons why men love to end-up with a virgin girlfriend or wife (quoted from: http://www.whatdomenreallythink.com/howto/what-men-think-of-virgins.php)

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Trusting becomes quite easy – When a man knows that his girl is a virgin, he deducts that she has not had a serious relationship with another man before. So there is no "ex-boyfriend" issues to deal with. Moreover virginity also implies that she is a lot more restrained in the pursuit of sex. A man would find that comforting because he would believe that she will not go astray in the relationship and she would stay loyal.

There is a sense of responsibility – When a man knows that the girl he is with is a virgin (or was virgin before their relationship) he automatically develops an attitude of loyalty. Since he is the first man in her life it brings about a sense of responsibility, almost a need to ensure he does not cheat on her. This is not true for all men though.

Men feel secure with virgins – It’s true that most men feel strained about their sexual performance. For a man it’s quite an insult to come across as a sloppy lover. While having sex with an experienced girl a man is not quite sure of what she is thinking, she might be comparing him with some of her ex-lovers. With a virgin he doesn’t have to harbor such fears. A man would feel comforted knowing that she will not be comparing him with other men while having sex with him.

It’s a special pride to "deflower" a virgin – All men dream of deflowering a virgin and be the first one to give her a sexual experience. Virginity is still quite a sacred thing in a man’s dictionary and he does value it. It definitely eggs his ego to sleep with a girl who is a virgin because in his own mind it’s an achievement that a girl is willing to give up her virginity to him. It’s definitely something he airs his vanity with a surge of pride.

"Virginity" implies serious relationship – When a man discovers that his girlfriend is a virgin, he immediately gets serious about the relationship. If she is a virgin it would imply that her first relationship would be a serious affair for her and so a man automatically starts taking her more seriously. Men think virgins are definite “marriage” material. With a girl who is not a virgin there is initially the tendency to be casual about the relationship until there is a deeper bonding.

If a girl is willing to wait for the "right" guy to come along before she loses her virginity, there is a good possibility that her first relationship might well end up in a stable marriage. In India men still prefer, or rather demand, that their wife be a virgin and most Indian marriages last for a lifetime. In Eastern countries men really think highly of virgins and esteem her to be traditional.

As far as marriage is concerned virginity is still important to men around the world, it’s just that they have stopped setting their expectations too high.

fake friendship!!

I found the truth behind your lies
You're just a fake friend in disguise
How dare you use me to get rich
I used to think the world of you

I wasted all my time with you
Thinking that our friendship was true
Accusing me of doing wrong 
And you're the one who messed it all up

I have just lost respect for you 
Sadly you're still holding on
Now it's time to say goodbye
Why won't you just apologize 
I hope it burns you deep inside
That's not okay

I used to fight to back you up
I risked my life and spilled my guts
You have no sense of loyalty
I guess you threw it all away now

I have just lost respect for you 
Sadly you're still holding on
Now it's time to say goodbye
Why won't you just apologize 
I hope it burns you deep inside

When I was down you just..
Just walked away
Didn't even ask me if I was okay
Falling stars and all the broken dreams
Almost loves
I can't take it anymore

I have just lost respect for you
Sadly you're still holding on
Now it's time to say goodbye
Why won't you just apologize 
I hope it burns you deep inside

i got over you

just married!!

dear dumb diary,

Someday,

 I will get marry with the man who is really in love with me..

but not the man that I love..

why?

because I believes..my world will end up with happy ending :))

50 Universal Truths About Men (By Bob Grant)

                                              

1. Why should I remind you that "I love you?" I already told you once.


2. I'll do anything for sex; even commit to you for life.


3. I hate arguing with you. I'd much rather find a compromise.


4. I love long hair. Sorry, but I do.


5. When you speak softly, I can't help but listen.


6. I need to be told "no" sometimes. Not a lot, but every now and again reminds me that you are expensive.


7. Please don't ask me how you look unless you're willing to trust my answer.


8. My eyes notice other women a lot more when you are upset with me.


9. When you're happy with me I can't help but want to please you.


10. If I don't feel I can make you happy, it makes me feel less than a man.


11. I expect you to be ready when I pick you up.


12. Cigarettes make any woman look cheap and easy.


13. I'm scared if I let a woman inside my heart, she'll take advantage of me.


14. If you can't stand up to me when I'm a brat, you're too weak for me to open up to when I'm upset.


15. Sitting quietly next to me after you've made me a meal is your get-out-of-the-doghouse-free ticket. 
     You'll be surprised how quickly I can forgive.


16. You did something hurtful. If I never bring it up, I'm considering leaving you.


17. I don't read minds. Remember, I'm not a girl.


18. You may know fashion, but I wish you'd dress to please me, not other women.


19. If I'm losing my hair, it's not funny. Would you like me to joke about your weight?


20. When I talk to you about golf and you act bored, it would be nice for you to remember all the times I       listened to you talk about what is important to you.


21. The woman I love is easy to please. She appreciates the effort I put into making her happy, even if I get the details wrong.


22. You look hot in a dress.


23. I hate being told what to do when I don't ask for help. It makes me feel you're my mother.


24. If you sleep over, I might eventually marry you, but I'm less motivated.


25. During sex my ears are as sensitive to your words as your skin is to my touch.

 




26. I need some type of signal or cue to walk across the room and approach you. What if you're married!?


27. It makes me feel like you trust me when you ask for my advice.


28. It feels competitive when you insist on being in charge.


29. Being respected is more important to me that being loved.


30. I want every guy to envy me when we arrive as a couple. Please don't let yourself go.


31. When I'm upset I am very tone sensitive. How you say it is more important that what you say..


32. I hate it when you minimize/ignore my compliments. It makes me what to stop giving them.


33. I'm more insecure than you think. Why do you think I need your respect so much?


34. I don't always know how I feel. That's why I don't tell you.


35. I don't need you to do things for me. What I crave is being able to please you.


36. If I do one thing and say something contradictory - Go with my actions, that will always tell you 
what's in my heart.


37. I find myself wanting to please you when you simply smile at me without asking for something. (Like 
a favor).


38. I really don't want to hear about any of your ex-boyfriends, regardless of the point.


39. If I don't share what I'm thinking it's because I don't think you will listen without interrupting.


40. I don't like to argue and I don't like to guess what's wrong. Just tell me so I can fix it.


41. I love it when you put your hair in a pony tail. Yes, it's a Freudian thing.


42. Don't ask me, "Are you going to wear that?" when I'm already dressed.


43. A gentleman should always be respected by his lady in public, even if she is disagreeing with him.


44. If you don't believe you're pretty, you won't believe me when I tell you, no matter how many times I say it.


45. It isn't how much you weigh; it's that your body is proportionate which is so attractive.


46. Sometimes I have weird and strange thoughts. I don't take them seriously and I don't want to share them with you (or anyone).


47. Sometimes you really don't want to know what I'm thinking. See above.


48. If you cheat on me, it is nearly impossible for me to get over it.


49. I don't remember everything about our relationship and that doesn't mean I don't love you.


50. I need some time to myself to calm down when I'm upset so that I don't say something I will regret.

i just wanna be OK n feel d day:)

Open me up and you will see

I'm a gallery of broken hearts

I'm beyond repair, let me be

And give me back my broken parts

I just want to know today, know today, know today

I just want to know something today

I just want to know today, know today, know today

Know that maybe I will be ok

im just started my blog today!!

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